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  • ● How to get a handle on your life
  • ● And actually feel proud to be a man

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If you feel trapped in your life... in your job... in your relationship… or forever alone...

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If you're always the shoulder they cry on, and never the lap they sit on…

Or maybe you’re the douchebag who can’t get past a few weeks of sex until everything blows up in your face…


If you want to stop feeling angry, depressed, lost, frustrated, and confused...

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If you are anything like me, you grew up without a role model for masculinity. Maybe your dad was absent, an alcoholic, or just another lost man with no one to turn to, no one to mentor him, and definitely no one to look up to... and now you're lost just like him.

I know I struggled through my 20s trying to figure it all out with no one to turn to. I tried the pick up artists way which got me laid, but left me floundering when I wanted something deeper and more meaningful. I didn’t even know that being a man was a thing.

Masculinity & Manhood

Two things I never gave much thought to or what they meant for me until I was well into my 30s.

The two things I didn’t realize that were causing me the most pain, frustration, and grief throughout my entire life.


How could I have known? No one ever talked about it. As far as I knew, being a man was not crying, not asking for help, and knowing that you could walk anything off.

Women loved my company, but they didn’t want to sleep with me. Was it my looks, my financial state, my car, something wasn’t working and I had no idea why.

I felt helpless, lost, and all I wanted was a woman to like me. More than just friends. More than a shoulder to cry on.

So I went searching for dating advice, and all I found were tricks and schemes on manipulating women. That wasn’t me. I didn’t want to become the asshole macho jerk bad boy, and so I sulked. Do Nice Guys really finish last?

It turns out for me, it meant everything. Being a nice guy wasn’t getting me what I wanted, and being a lying, manipulative asshole just to get laid just wasn’t me.

I was stuck between a rock and hard place and being pulled apart in two different directions.

What was wrong with me?


Was there a way to get the love, sex, and feminine attention I so desperately wanted without having to lie, cheat, and manipulate my way into a girl's pants?

It turns out there was! I found a way to get all that without the hassle of having a nagging pain in the ass girlfriend. I had found the golden treasure box of porn addiction. It was awesome.

Every night I could have any girl I wanted, doing anything I wanted, moaning the way I wanted, and when I was done I could just turn off the computer and lie there all alone.

All alone. Ashamed. Disappointed. Frustrated. Disgusted. Until I fell asleep to do it again the next day.

It sucked, and the worst part, that wasn’t even rock bottom.

So that’s where I started. Many years ago, many lessons, and a lifetime of research into those two seemingly innocent words. Masculinity and Manhood.

After committing all of my time, money, and energy into applying my coaching and mentoring skills, I now dedicate my life to helping adult boys discover the POWERFUL MEN INSIDE THEM.




I've never felt stronger and more confident in everything that I do. What I really love about the man I am today is that it allowed me to attract an amazing woman who is an absolutely phenomenal wife. Something I'd really given up on.

I don't know if any of you out there are feeling this way feeling like you're never going to find the one, like you're never good enough to find the one, or just not into having the tools and ability to figure out who the right one even is.

It took a lot of trial and error to figure out what I was doing wrong. And by trial and error, I mean tons of time, money, and energy. I want to save you all of that grief, despair, and frustration that I went through to find my amazing wife.

Why is she amazing?

She admires and honors me as a man, her powerful, masculine man.

Let me tell you, it is absolutely amazing to be married to a woman who respects, admires, and loves who you are at your core. Let me say that again.


It is absolutely amazing to be married to a woman who honors and respects who you are at your very core as a Powerful Man.

Because at my core is what I especially love now, I get to teach and mentor men searching for what I have now.


I’ve been able to coach and lead groups helping hundreds of people bring more love, joy, and passionate sex into their life and relationships I've spent more than 20 years studying the most powerful and effective techniques to bring life transforming change to my clients’ lives. I've even been fortunate enough to work with David Deida and his invitation-only private intensives.  

With all that said, the best return on investment for the countless hours of research and study on men, women, and relationships I’ve done is that I get to save the men I work with enormous amounts of time, energy, and heartache by giving them what I didn't have, the real techniques and strategies to empower you from the inside out and make you irresistible to not just any woman, but a high-quality woman.

My goal is to give you every single resource I can, so you can be the best man you can. If you were anything like me, no one ever told you how to be a man.  No one was there to tell you how to get what you want out of life and so you’ve struggled. You’ve been angry at your lack of sex. Your relationships suck, and you’ve never had the privilege of feeling truly respected, loved, and admired as a Hero.

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